I’m writing to tell you I will never forgive you for taking my Grandschildren away from me. I have put up with your chronic lying, your never ending manipulating, your obvious exaggerating, your passing the buck, and your running away for 20 plus years, this is the last time. You have put our family through some unbelievable crap over the years, but you have crossed the unforgivable line one to many times. It’s too hard to keep up with your mood swings, and I no longer have the patience to wait while you play your games out in your head.
You think you can keep up your charade and fool so many forever…well it’s coming to an end. One by one people are figuring out that you’re nothing more than a bully with a smile. One by one they are realizing the nice guy in you is no longer enough for them to continue to put up with your crap.
Crazy idea or not, but I’m not sure if I believe that you are really that much of an a–hole, or if you’re that demented and think buying a house made your balls get bigger. (Since everyone agrees that when you bought a house you turboed straight into super jerk) Either way, I will never forget what you’ve put our family through. You not only hurt your parents, but more importantly you hurt your little brothers, your grandparents, your step daughter and your own son. Lucky for you some people are weak hearted and won’t confront you about your unforgivable actions when you show up at their doorstep needing help. (I hear you’ve already started with one) There is no excuse for your horrible behavior. You betrayed the people that have always stood up for you, even when you didn’t deserve it. I hope it was worth it for you. I quote “Before you do me wrong, be sure you never need me again”.
I’ve made my decision, I’m done with you. You’re lies and selfishness broke my family for which I gave up everything to protect from harm. My Grandchildren and I will reconnect one day. I have everything in place for them and there is nothing you can do about it. There are people that will tell them about me, they won’t be little forever. The day will come when they hear and see the truth, it’s all being kept in a safe place for them. If there is a God, you might want to ask him to help you out when your son and stepdaughter find out all the loving family you’ve kept from them, because it will happen. You’re teaching them that it’s ok to disrespect your parents as soon as you’re old enough, what are you gonna do when they do it to you?
When you found out you were going to be a father you cried to me that you were afraid you would be worthless like your biological dad. Well congratulations, you did it, you are just as worthless as he.
Done with the Pain & All Out Of Love, MOM