Mother Guilt vs. Boundaries

Why do we allow ourselves to be consumed by mother guilt?  I can’t help but wonder if secure women are secure mothers and  are they consumed with Mother guilt as much as the insecure mothers.  What do insecure mothers do to help themselves escape this insecurity rut or gutter that they are in. I couldContinue reading “Mother Guilt vs. Boundaries”

The Biggest Betrayal of All

Today is a different conversation. Today I will focus on telling you my story of Betrayal. As I’ve shared with you before, I am 47 years old, I’ve been a mother for 30 years.  That means I have never lived the adult life without having my children in my home. I didn’t participate in the sports,Continue reading “The Biggest Betrayal of All”

The Depth of My Self Loathing

There are so many things running through my mind today.  So many things I want to share with you before I get to “where we’re really going”. I’m going to start with the wonders of being a grandma.  When I saw my grandson for the first time, I was convinced that the reason people have children inContinue reading “The Depth of My Self Loathing”

Mental Anguish Confronted or Not…

This is the tattoo I had put on my forearm to always remind me of my sons accident. A constant reminder to never waver on taking the key of a loved one if you feel their thinking is impaired at all, and also as a conversation starter. Many people have seen my tattoo, (probably moreContinue reading “Mental Anguish Confronted or Not…”

Where Should I Start?

I suppose I should start at the beginning. I was 17 years old, a senior in high school when I got pregnant. I was a cheerleader, basketball player, I loved running on the Varsity track team and in 4H. I don’t think I was considered popular, then again, looking back there were 31 people inContinue reading “Where Should I Start?”

Welcome Humble Mothers

I invite you to join me on my journey. My journey of motherhood. All journeys are difficult, and all journeys are different, but this journey is mine. I will talk about where I came from, where I am now and how I got here. Let me introduce myself. I am a 47 year old motherContinue reading “Welcome Humble Mothers”